The Returns We Deserve

There was a time when disappointing investment outcomes could be explained by ignorance. Information was scarce, access was limited, and the inner workings of markets were difficult to understand.
That is no longer the case.
Today, the evidence is widely available and broadly accepted: long-term investment success is shaped less by insight or selection and more by behaviour. Yet the gap between what investors expect and what they experience remains.
Not because we don’t know better, but because knowing and doing are not the same thing.
Where It Begins: A Rational Plan
Most investment journeys begin from a place of clarity.
A financial plan is built using long-term return assumptions. Objectives are defined. A required return is calculated that gives a high probability of achieving those objectives. From there, a portfolio is constructed, usually through a strategic asset allocation aligned with that required return.
It is a disciplined and thoughtful process.
At this stage, success is simply defined as achieving the required return over time.
The plan does not require outperformance. It requires discipline.
A Subtle Shift
And then the framing begins to change.
The required return, initially a planning input, quietly becomes a benchmark to beat. Attention shifts from achieving the plan to outperforming it.
Performance is no longer judged over the full journey, but over rolling short-term periods: months, quarters, maybe a year.
Advisors are evaluated on whether they are “winning” or “losing” in these narrow windows. Clients begin to expect not just adequacy, but superiority.
And in that shift, something essential gets lost.
What Fades from View: The Path Matters
As focus narrows to short-term outcomes, something crucial receives less attention: the path required to earn long-term returns.
Because that path is not smooth.
It includes uncertainty, underperformance, and discomfort. Returns do not arrive in straight lines. They are earned through uneven, often emotionally demanding experiences.
Without preparation for this reality, normal market behaviour can feel like failure. Decisions are then made that move investors away from the very plan designed to serve them.
The irony is hard to miss. In trying to outperform the plan, investors often undermine the outcomes the plan was meant to achieve.
The Industry Knows
What makes this more uncomfortable is that none of this is controversial.
The research is clear. This is not hidden knowledge, but yet the pattern persists.
Why? Because much of the advice ecosystem is built around a different promise: better performance, delivered consistently, relative to others. It is the most marketable story.
It is also least reliable.
The Role of the Environment
This dynamic does not exist in isolation.
Clients want reassurance. Advisors want to demonstrate value. Platforms want engagement.
The broader ecosystem (clients, advisors, platforms and media) naturally gravitates toward what is visible and measurable. Short-term performance is easy to observe, easy to compare, and easy to discuss.
So, we continue, knowingly.
A Shared Understanding
What makes this dynamic more nuanced is that it is not hidden.
Advisors know short-term performance is noisy. Investors understand markets move unpredictably. Research consistently highlights the central role of behaviour. There is quiet consensus on these points.
And yet, in moments of uncertainty, that understanding often collapses under emotional pressure. The urge to react, adjust or seek reassurance is deeply human.
We can no longer claim ignorance. At some point, we are complicit.
The Outcomes We Earn
When investors fall short of long-term objectives, the explanation is often not mysterious.
They are not merely victims of bad luck or poor information. They are participants in patterns they often understand but struggle to resist. In that sense, outcomes are not accidental.
They are participated in.
Following these patterns often feels natural. It offers a sense of control. It relieves the discomfort of uncertainty. But it usually comes at a cost.
When decisions are shaped by short-term signals rather than long-term alignment, even well-designed plans can be gradually undermined.
A Different Orientation
Perhaps the question is not whether the system changes, but rather how consciously we participate in it. The system may continue to emphasise what is easy to measure and compare.
That may not change, but how we participate can. It is always a choice.
If you cannot live with discomfort in the short term, you will almost certainly live with discomfort in the long term. A long-term absolute expectation cannot be achieved through a short-term relative mindset.
We often do not merely suffer our outcomes. We participate in them.
The real edge in investing is the willingness to stop participating in the very patterns that erode the outcomes we seek.
Written by Marius Kilian






